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Lightning Farron (
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2015-07-24 05:42 am (UTC)
Re: [text]
Then you're being cruel to him.
Not taking his feelings into account just shows you're afraid of him making a choice you don't want for him.
That's not being an adult. That's being a scared child who can't handle not being in control like a dictator is.
Stop hiding behind some self-righteous reason and ask him.
And don't you dare try and skip out on it. If you actually care about their well-being, stop being their mother and be their equal instead.
[She's not going to answer if you give her a "I need to protect them for x reason" response.]
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Re: [text]
Not taking his feelings into account just shows you're afraid of him making a choice you don't want for him.
That's not being an adult. That's being a scared child who can't handle not being in control like a dictator is.
Stop hiding behind some self-righteous reason and ask him.
And don't you dare try and skip out on it. If you actually care about their well-being, stop being their mother and be their equal instead.
[She's not going to answer if you give her a "I need to protect them for x reason" response.]